These Christening Outfits Are Chic And Occasion-Appropriate

From a statement coat to shorts suit, we've got you covered for naming ceremonies.

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by Natalie Hammond |
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Christening outfits are one of the more niche on the occasionwear spectrum. And even though you can probably rewear a lot of your wedding guest dresses, it requires a little more mindfulness when it comes to outfit ideas that may or may not be appropriate. A minidress = appropriate. Something see-through = perhaps not (although that entirely depends on the crowd). For a safe bet for what to wear for a christening, think Charlotte York-Goldenblatt, whose refined wardrobe of pearls, cinch-waisted floral frocks and perfectly pointed pumps mean that she could pretty much rock up at a christening on any given Tuesday, or, for that matter, Lisa Todd-Wexley, whose statement necklaces and power tailoring are chic as hell while still being christening-appropriate.

How exactly do christening outfits differ from wedding guest outfits?

Good question! To be honest, a christening outfit could be very similar to a wedding guest outfit. Both occasions might warrant your host sending you a dress code along with your invitation, which makes it a little easier to decide what to wear. If not, you can ask for guidelines about what might or might not be appropriate. Most friends, however, won't be too precious about what you turn up wearing to their little one's christening (or the non-religious alternative, a naming ceremony). The only caveat is that if the ceremony is being held in a church, you might want to consider something along the lines of a floral dress and, if it's still cold enough to warrant a coat, some pastel-coloured outerwear. If not, you'll still want to choose something that ticks the smart-casual box, whether that's a puff-sleeved dress, a linen suit or a statement coat that's an outfit in itself.

Is it appropriate to wear white to a christening?

Unlike weddings, when you don't want to risk upstaging the bride, it's completely acceptable to wear white or cream to a christening. Even if the baby is wearing an old-fashioned christening robe, I don't think they will be offended if you're also styling out a frilly lace number.

Since it's such a staple of both the christening and wedding circuit, let's start with the floral dress...

The Floral Dress

Zawe Ashton
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Actor Zawe Ashton was the dress queen at LFW - and this one, with its blue-on-white blossom print, is perfect for a naming ceremony or christening. You simply can't go wrong with a floral dress, especially as you probably already have one (or six) in your wardrobe for wedding season. How to make it less 'wedding' and more 'christening'? Lose the fascinator and add big earrings.

Zawe Ashton's dress is Erdem, the king of floral dresses that are distinctly 'fashion' and not a bit fusty. This crinkled-satin style, which finishes a few inches below the knee, would be just as lovely at a christening as at a wedding.

H&M, Oversized Crinkled Dress
Price: £37.99

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H&M's blue-on-white crinkled dress is a slightly more relaxed take on christening dresses that can still be elevated with a slingback heel.

Me+Em, a favourite of Kate Middleton's, has plenty of floral dresses that would more than pass muster on the christening season circuit, like this emerald green number.

Whistles, Retro Floral Mesh Dress
Price: £119.20 (was £149)

www.whistles.com

This floral mesh dress is the perfect choice for a hipster friend's baby's christening or naming ceremony.

For a floral dress that you can wear long after the christening wraps, it's got to be Kitri. This shirt dress would look smart yet seriously cool with knee-high boots that disappear up the hem.

Rixo is obviously a one-stop-shop when it comes to floral dresses of all descriptions. I love this one's sheer sleeves, exposing just a hint of skin, and loose silhouette.

Reiss, Floral Tiered Maxi Dress
Price: £110 (was £278)

www.reiss.com

Reiss' tiered maxi dress is a moodier take on florals that is still christening-appropriate.

This 100% silk dress will flow beautifully - and has an ankle-sweeping length that is super flattering.

What can you wear to a christening if you don't want to wear a dress?

There are so many options if you don't fancy wearing a dress so, firstly, don't panic. Secondly, your outfit will depend on the time of year. If it's autumn or winter, why not slip into a statement coat, something fabulous that means you don't have to worry about what's underneath? For the height of summer, try a shorts suit, which has all of the chic-factor of a trouser suit but is guaranteed to keep you cool.

The Statement Coat

Tessa Thompson
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If you're struggling to coordinate a coat, a dress and a handbag, stop what you're doing and focus, simply, on a statement coat that's so chic, so head-turning, that you don't have to worry about what's underneath à la Tessa Thompson.

Karen Millen, Italian Manteco Wool Double-Breasted Longline Coat
Price: £295.20 (was £369)

www.karenmillen.com

As bright as it is bold, Karen Millen's peacock blue coat is a ready-made outfit.

Max Mara's light jersey coat is a perfect option for a spring christening or naming ceremony.

This cinch-waisted coat, featuring one of the brand's signature prints, would look sharp and seriously chic for a naming ceremony with knee-high boots.

The Shorts Suit

Emma Corrin
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A shorts suit has got to be one of the easiest and smartest options for the christening circuit if such a thing exists (and can double for wedding season as long as the colour isn't too bridal). It's easy-to-wear on the day, especially if you opt for an oversized fit, and both elements can be worn separately so that they won't hang in your wardrobe, unworn, and make you feel guilty. For a particularly 'fashion' take, look to Emma Corrin, who traded their trousers for a crisp pair of shorts at Wimbledon.

This blazer's cropped length balances out the elongated silhouette of the matching shorts to perfection.

Take Emma's Bermuda-length shorts as your inspo if your head has been turned by the idea of a shorts suit. Massimo Dutti's version would look impossibly sleek with a brightly coloured tee underneath like fuchsia or tangerine.

Aeyde's ladylike pumps, complete with delicate straps and buckles, will be the gift that keeps on giving this summer event season.

The Cardigan And Skirt

Pixie Geldof
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For a slightly more casual, but no less head-turning, outfit, what about this cardigan and skirt combo, straight from the wardrobe of Pixie Geldof? It's conservative enough for a church, but still cool thanks to her accessories: a shoulder bag avec studded strap and crystal-embellished slingbacks.

Molly Goddard's intarsia cardigans are some of the best in the business.

COS tailored wool skirt is actually a skort, a pair of shorts that looks pretty much exactly like a skirt to all intents and purposes. A practical choice, especially if it's gusty, this will become a cornerstone of your workwear collection, as well as being perfectly appropriate for christenings.

Joseph's fine rib merino cardigan is a great option for crisp spring days thanks to its warm yet light blend of materials.

Ganni's skirts are legendary in fashion circles for their instantly recognisable prints.

YMC's floral-intarsia cardigan will be a breath of fresh air on the christening season circuit, especially if paired with a pleated skirt.

A pleated skirt made of chino-style fabric will be such a useful addition to your wardrobe, not least for christening season.

The Skirt Suit

Kelly Rutherford
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There aren't many occasions that cry out for a skirt suit, but a christening is one of them. At London Fashion Week, Kelly Rutherford arrived at one show wearing a directional take on the two-piece, with an oversized blazer and slender pencil skirt from Mithridate, both in a seriously chic shade of taupe sequins. Chic and weather-appropriate, especially for christenings outside of summer, it's a nice step-change from a pastel-hued dress.

As previously discussed, bridal colours are fair game at weddings. Enter this satin-crepe blazer by A.L.C., which is actually designed to coordinate with trousers but which you could easily style instead with the brand's sequinned pencil skirt (Rutherford wouldn't hesitate).

This sequinned column skirt is easier to wear than you might think because it's made of stretch-knit. Once the christening's been and gone, pair it with a crisp white tee, a denim jacket and your Sambas.

A Mary Jane, preferably one that packs a punch, is the perfect finishing touch for your skirt suit.

The Silky Pyjamas

Joanna Lumley
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Joanna Lumley might have been attending at fashion show instead of a christening, but her dandelion-printed pyjamas - Burberry, naturally - would certainly bring something a bit out of the ordinary to proceedings. Add a pastel-hued coat over the top, preferably not a wrap style as it could look a little too similar to a dressing gown, and you're guaranteed to be the most interestingly dressed guest.

Joanna Lumley's pyjamas are still available to buy from Burberry. You can choose from either sherbet or ivy so take your pick, although the latter might be easier to keep clean.

These dandelion-print pyjama bottoms are much too glamorous to save for the bedroom.

These butter yellow silk pyjamas are the perfect colour - sumptuous yet summery - for a christening in the warmer months.

The Pastel Polo Neck

Sydney Sweeney
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When the weather's being indecisive - blowing hot then cold within the same hour - a polo neck is your best friend. Sydney Sweeney shows you how it's done, with this knitted lilac number by Tom Ford. The pastel shade definitely says 'spring', while the long sleeves and high neck say 'warm'. It's the best of both worlds.

Arket, Merino Wool Roll-Neck
Price: £40 (was £67)

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Arket's butter yellow roll neck could actually be worn underneath a summer dress if you don't want to wait to wear it.

Intermissimi's modal cashmere polo neck feels super light but still warm thanks to its clever blend of fibres. Wear as a base layer or by itself with a high-waisted skirt.

What should you wear to a christening in winter?

For a christening in the depths of winter, you'll need to incorporate a coat into your outfit. This might sound obvious, but you'd be surprised how often people leave outerwear until last when, really, it shouldn't be an after-thought.

Kerry Washington
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Take your cue from Kerry Washington, who threw a peacock blue coat over her plum tailoring earlier this year when, as you can see from the flurries, it was actually snowing. Elegant yet oh-so-easy, don't forget to dial up the drama with a punchy combo of colours.

What should you wear to a christening as a godparent?

As a godparent, all eyes will be on you at some point during the christening or naming ceremony. No pressure, but this probably means you should consider your outfit even more carefully because, without wanting to steal the spotlight from the blessed child, there will be photos.

Ellie Delphine
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Influencer Ellie Delphine gave something of a masterclass in what to wear for a christening as a godparent during Paris Fashion Week. Wearing a floral-embellished dress with puffed sleeves that was this year's colour of choice, Peach Fuzz, it was the definition of chic.

Natalie Hammond is Grazia’s Senior Fashion News Editor. She loves winter, hates summer and can often be found writing about the weather (and what on earth to wear).

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