Everything You Need To Know About Kate Middleton And Prince William’s Relationship

They've been through a myriad of highs and lows throughout royal life

Kate Middleton and Prince William's relationship history

by Katie Rosseinsky |
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2024 hasn’t been the simplest of years for Prince William and Kate Middleton. In March, two months after her planned abdominal surgery, the Princess of Wales announced to the nation that she had been diagnosed with cancer and was undergoing preventative chemotherapy. The distressing news came on the heels of King Charles’s respective cancer diagnosis, and after Kate and William’s marriage faced unwarranted scrutiny amid her absence from the public eye. But things are now turning a corner. This week, the future queen consort provided the welcome news that she had finished chemotherapy and was now cancer-free, sharing the update via a deeply personal video that captured the essence of her relationship with not only her three children, but with her husband. In the wake of the optimistic update, we have looked back on all the milestones in Prince William and Kate Middleton’s relationship.

After first meeting in 2001, the Prince and Princess of Wales have (almost) been together ever since. When they first met, William and Kate were both students at The University of St Andrews, and what first began as friendship soon blossomed into romance. Their relationship continued post graduation, and after getting married at Westminster Abbey in 2011, they now have three children together – Prince George, 11, Princess Charlotte, nine, and Prince Louis, six.

So how did it all begin? Here's the story of their relationship so far...

How did Kate Middleton and Prince William meet?

Prince William and Kate Middleton met in their first year of university at St Andrews in Scotland. They were both studying History of Art until Prince William switched to Geography in his second year.

As the second heir to the throne (now first), William had to hold a press conference after he received his A-Level results, revealing his plans for higher education. At the time, he told the press he was having a gap year and then planning to go to St Andrews because it's close to his beloved Balmoral Castle.

Actors Ed McVey, as Prince William and actress Meg Bellamy, who plays Kate Middleton in between filming scenes for the next season of The Crown in St Andrews, Scotland. Picture date: Thursday March 16, 2023. (Photo by Andrew Milligan/PA Images via Getty Images)

William and Kate were placed in the same halls and building in first year, although legend has it they met on their course and became friends, with it rumoured that William was won over when he saw Kate walk down the catwalk in a see-through dress at a charity fashion show. A moment that is, of course, recreated in The Crown.

Did Kate and William meet before university?

While the future couple didn't meet prior to their student days, their paths nearly crossed a number of times. Both William and Kate took gap years from university, during which they separately travelled to Chile to volunteer with Raleigh International just weeks apart.

New graduate Kate Middleton wears a traditional gown to the graduation ceremony at St Andrew's University to collect her degree in St Andrew's on June 23, 2005
Kate graduates from St Andrews in 2005 (Photo by Tim Graham Photo Library via Getty Images ©Tim Graham Photo Library via Getty Images

Initially, Kate had planned to go to the University of Edinburgh and had even sorted her accommodation with two of her close friends. However, she pulled out at the last minute and reapplied to St Andrews (after Prince William announced that is where he would be attending). In The Palace Papers, author Tina Brown wrote: 'Carole has considerable strategic flair. Whenever Kate was bloodied in the ring, she retreated to Bucklebury (the Middleton's family home), where Coach Carole would dress her wounds, advise her on moves, and urge her to keep her eyes on the prize... Carole’s fingerprints are all over Kate’s first move on the royal chessboard.'

How does The Crown show Kate and William's relationship?

In The Crown's final season, which arrived on the streaming service in December 2023, William (Ed McVey) and Kate (Meg Bellamy) initially run into each other when Kate catches William's eye while he's doing a public appearance with his mother Princess Diana (Elizabeth Debicki). Their interaction is brief, and the pair don't really met until they're both studying at St Andrews. They flirt with each other in the library and get drunk at house parties; and even fall out at one point. However, it's the moment Kate walks down the charity fashion show catwalk in that see-through dress that Will falls for his future wife.

Actors Kate Bellamy and Ed McVey hold hands as Princess Kate and Prince William in The Crown
The Crown shows Kate and William meeting at university in Scotland (Photo by Netflix) ©Netflix

Peter Morgan's portrayal suggests that Kate's mother Carole (Eve Best) was determined for her daughter to start up a relationship with the young prince. In one scene, Kate confronts her mum during her first year Christmas holidays and says she forced her to change uni, take a gap year and do the same volunteering programme and art course as Prince William just so they could meet. Obviously, we'l; never know whether this was a coincidence or not.

Generally, The Crown paints Kate's mother Carole Middleton in a less than favourable light. At various points, we see her tuning into the radio in her car to find out Prince William's university plans, telling Kate to go after what she wants when she confesses to thinking Prince William is handsome, and scoffing at her daughter's first year boyfriend Rupert – as he's not quite who she had in mind.

Did Kate Middleton have a crush on Prince William as a teenager?

Rumour has it, Kate Middleton had a crush on Prince William long before they met. Around the time of their engagement, it was reported that Kate had a poster of Prince William hung up on her wall at boarding school. This became such a public talking point that Kate was asked about the rumours during their engagement interview.

Prince William embraces Kate Middleton, as her sister Pippa Middleton looks on, after playing the Field Game in an old boys match at Eton College on March 18, 2006 in Eton, England
Kate and William in 2006 with Pippa Middleton (Photo by Indigo/Getty Images) ©Indigo/Getty Images

One of Kate's boarding school roommates, Jessica Hay, had relayed the infamous story to royal biographer Katie Nicholl (who wrote Kate: The Future Queen) and said that Kate had photos of William on her wall and would say things like, 'there's no one quite like William.'

When the future Queen was asked about this rumour in their engagement interview, she said: 'He wishes! No. No, I had the Levi's guy on my wall, not a picture of William. Sorry!'

Who were Kate and William's university exes?

Before Kate and William got together, they both dated other people, of course. In The Crown, Prince William is seen to be dating someone called Lola Airedale Cavendish Kinkade, while Kate Middleton starts seeing someone called Rupert Finch (played by Sienna Miller's IRL boyfriend Oli Green) – she even brings him home to meet the family at Christmas.

But did that really happen? Well, according to our research, Prince William's first year girlfriend was actually called Olivia Hunt. He also dated a girl in the year above called Carly Massy-Birch, who got along with the prince because she was a 'country bumpkin'.

Kate, meanwhile, was indeed, in a relationship with a student called Rupert Finch before she got together with William.

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Want to know more? Here's Kate Middleton and Prince William's relationship timeline

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1991: School Years

Think Kate and Wills first locked eyes at university? Think again. It turns out the now-married parents of the future heirs to the throne actually crossed hockey sticks - sort of - at just nine years old. According the royal biographer, Kate Nicholls, Kate first saw William while his prep school was playing against hers in a hockey match. Kate wasn't interested in boys at the time (unsurprising - as I'm sure you'll recall yourself, when you're nine years old boys are mostly smelly, annoying creatures who you don't want to have much to do with), but Wills was the first to catch her eye due to the excitement generated around his arrival at the school. As the biographer put it, 'It was the first time Kate had set her eyes on the young prince, but certainly not the last.'

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2001 - 2005: The University years

It wasn't until 2001 that Kate and William's worlds collided again. The pair officially met as freshers at the University of St Andrews: allocated rooms near to each other in St Salvators Hall of Residence, they had both initially signed up for the same art history course. While William struggled to adjust to campus life at first, Kate persuaded him to stay, with the Prince eventually switching to a geography degree. For their second year, they moved into a student house along with two other friends, but romance didn't blossom until the end of 2003, when Kate split up with her boyfriend (a fellow St Andrews student). The relationship became public knowledge when they were photographed on a skiing trip to Klosters in 2004; the following year, the pair were pictured together on their graduation day.

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2006: Post-graduation

These were the golden years for Kate and Wills early relationship - while they took very separate paths after university (the former working as a party planner for her parents' company, the latter starting officer training at Sandhurst) but their relationship continued to go from strength to strength. It's at this point, several years into the romance, that Kate began to appear at William's side for important events, proving that she'd very much become part of the (royal) family. The pair attended the wedding of William's step-sister Laura Parker Bowles in the summer of 2006, but Kate's most significant appearance came later in the year, when she watched William graduate from Sandhurst (a ceremony that also counted the Queen and Prince Charles among its guests).

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2007: The break up (and speedy make up)

After reports emerged that Kate and William's relationship had cooled, it was confirmed in April 2007 that the pair had parted ways, with the intense media interest doubtless a factor in the decision. The break, however, didn't last long, with the young couple back 'on' just a couple of months later, and Kate was photographed attending the Concert for Diana, marking the tenth anniversary of her sad passing, in July. Later looking back at the brief split in an interview announcing his engagement, William said: 'We were both very young […] we were both defining ourselves as such and being different characters. It was very much trying to find out way and we were growing up, it was just a bit of space – things worked out for the better.'

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2008 - 2010: Relationship milestones

April 2008 marked the first time that Kate had attended a high profile public event with her boyfriend since their brief split the previous year: along with members of his close family, she watched as William received his RAF wings (marking him as a qualified pilot) at a ceremony in Cranwell, definitively proving that all was well once again in the relationship. Just over two years later, the couple moved into their first home together, a cottage close to William's RAF base in Anglesey where they would remain for the next three years.

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2010: The engagement

When it comes to the engagement, where do we begin? The sell-out Issa dress? Diana's sapphire? The birth of the K-mid blowdry? William proposed his mother Diana's 18 carat sapphire and diamond engagement ring while the pair were on a Safari trip together in Kenya, later revealing that he had to carry this priceless heirloom around in his rucksack for around three weeks before eventually getting down on one knee. After weeks of speculation, the happy news was finally confirmed at a press conference just over a month later, held at St James's Palace, when Kate described her 'loving boyfriend' as 'a true romantic,' who had been 'supportive of her] in good times and also through the bad times.' And if that didn't sufficiently tug at your heartstrings, William's decision to give Kate his mother's ring as '[his] way of making sure [Diana] didn't miss out on today' certainly would. 'She's not going to be around to share in any of the fun and excitement of it all, so this is my way of keeping her sort of close to it all,' he explained. Mario Testino, whose images of Diana are among the most iconic shots of the late princess, was behind the lens for the couple's engagement photos. Kate opted to wear a white dress from high street favourite Reiss, which immediately sold out (just like her [blue Issa wrap dress, worn to the press conference).

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2011: The royal wedding

On 29th April 2011, William and Kate were married at Westminster Abbey, in a ceremony thought to have been watched by as many as two billion people in more than 180 countries around the world. For her princess moment, Kate opted to wear a bespoke gown designed by Alexander McQueen's Sarah Burton, which rapidly became one of the most iconic (and most copied) wedding dresses of all time.

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July 2011: The first royal tour

As far as first royal gigs go, hosting Barack and Michelle Obama at Buckingham Palace certainly isn't bad. After that, the newlyweds were put straight to work, embarking on their first overseas tour. The trip took in the United States and Canada, encompassing everything from a glamorous BAFTA event in LA to dragon boating to an appearance at a rodeo (comedy cowboy hats included). According to one royal biographer, Prince Charles was reportedly slightly displeased at the sheer volume of photo opportunities, branding their posing as 'tasteless,' but we loved every single one.

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December 2012: A pregnancy announcement

'Their Royal Highnesses the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge are very pleased to announce that the Duchess of Cambridge is expecting a baby,' read the official pregnancy announcement released by the Royal Family, adding 'The Queen, the Duke of Edinburgh, the Prince of Wales, the Duchess of Cornwall and Prince Harry and members of both families are delighted with the news.' Kate's pregnancy was revealed earlier than usual, when she had not yet passed the first trimester, as she was admitted to hospital for acute morning sickness, or hyperemesis gradivarium.

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July 2013: Prince George is born

It's a boy! On 22nd July 2013, Prince George Alexander Louis of Cambridge was born, becoming the third in line to the throne of Great Britain, behind his father William and grandfather Prince Charles, and ahead of his uncle, Prince Harry. The baby prince was christened in October, in the Royal Chapel at St James' Palace, wearing an antique christening gown that has been worn by royal babies as far back as 1841.

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September 2014: Kate's second pregnancy is confirmed

In September 2014, the Duke and Duchess had yet more happy news to share: an announcement from Clarence House confirmed that Prince George was set to become an older brother, as the Duchess was expecting her second child. Suffering again from acute morning sickness in the early stages of her pregnancy, the Duchess was forced to cancel a string of royal engagements.

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May 2015: Princess Charlotte is born

'I hope it will be a girl this time,' Prince Charles told reporters after it was revealed that he would soon become a grandfather for the second time. Eight months later, on 2nd May 2015, Princess Charlotte Elizabeth Diana of Cambridge was welcomed into the world, born in the Lindo Wing of St Mary's Hospital (just like her older brother). 'I feel very, very lucky that George has got a little sister,' the Duchess later told an interviewer.

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2015 - present: Family life

Kate, William and their two young children continued to enjoy family life away from the cameras at their home, Anmer Hall in Norfolk, with the young Prince eventually enrolling in nursery at the Westacre Montessori School. At the start of this year, however, it was announced that the royals would be moving to Kensington Palace in the autumn in order to step up their official engagements, also coinciding with the start of term at Thomas's Battersea, Prince George's new school. 'From this autumn, the Duke and Duchess will increasingly base their family at Kensington Palace,' the official statement read. 'As they have in recent years, Their Royal Highnesses are keen to continue to increase their official work on behalf of The Queen and for the charities and causes they support, which will require greater time spent in London.'

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May 2017: Pippa's wedding

Just a few weeks after celebrating their sixth wedding anniversary, Kate and William attended the nuptials of her younger sister, Pippa, with their two young children taking on starring roles in the proceedings: George as a page boy and Charlotte as a bridesmaid, both kitted out in their wedding best from Pepa & Co. While Kate wasn't officially a bridesmaid for her younger sister, she did help keep the young bridal party (including a reprimanded Prince George) in line. See you at Harry's wedding, William and Kate?

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September 2017: A third child is on the way

On September 4th 2017, Kensington Palace release a statement confirming the Duchess of Cambridge's third pregnancy. 'Their Royal Highnesses The Duke and Duchess of Cambridge are very pleased to announce that the Duchess of Cambridge is expecting their third child,' it read. As with her previous two pregnancies, the Duchess is suffering from Hyperemesis Gravidarum, causing her to cancel an engagement at Hornsey Road Children's Centre. Prince Louis Arthur Charles of Cambridge is the couples third child, born on the 28th April 2018 in St Mary's hospital, London.

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2017-2018: The 'Fab Four'

After a year of dating Prince Harry, Meghan Markle is reported to have met Kate and Princess Charlotte in January 2017. However it's not until a year later that the two Royal couples are officially photographed together - earning the title 'the Fab Four' at Anmer Hall as they walk to the Christmas Service.

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2018: Meghan Markle And Prince Harry's Wedding

In May 2018, Princess Charlotte is a bridesmaid for the wedding of Meghan Markle and Prince Harry. The Duke and Duchess of Sussex's nuptials mark the first major Royal Wedding since Kate and Williams in 2011. Following the wedding however, rumours of a reported feud between the Duchesses emerge with sources claiming that Meghan left Kate in 'tears' over a series of demanding dress fittings for Princess Charlotte.

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2018-2019: The 'Feud' Rumours

A year after the Meghan and Harry's wedding, several attempts have been made to diffuse unflattering media headlines speculating over reports of a froideur between Kate and Meghan. As of March 2019 it's confirmed that the couples 'royal households' will split, meaning the couples will no longer share staff. Royal spokesperson's confirm that Kate and William's staff team will stay in Kensington Palace while Meghan and Harry's staff will be based in Buckingham Palace. Representatives are quick to confirm this is a planned move, and not due to rumors of growing tensions between the couples.

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2020: The Couple Isolate At Anmer Hall

Amid the coronavirus pandemic, the family decided to isolate at their home in Norfolk. But that didn't mean a stop to their royal engagements, as the pair visited surprised pupils at Casterton Primary Academy in Lancashire with a Zoom call, and have now, finally, returned to face-to-face engagements.

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2020-2021: The Annual Christmas Card

The Middletons' sent out this Christmas portrait, which sees the family in good spirits. It's believed the family are going to remain at Anmer Hall in Norfolk and resume homeschooling their children, after England was plunged into Lockdown 3.

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2021: Ten Years Married

Two gorgeous portraits were released by Kensington Palace in celebration of their tenth wedding anniversary. Still definitely in love!

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Kate Middleton and Prince William

On 15 September 2022, a week after the passing of Queen Elizabeth II, the royals were photographed viewing the floral tributes left outside Sandringham in memory of the late monarch. On the Queen's passing, her eldest son Charles took to the throne, while William and Kate became the Prince and Princess of Wales.

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The Prince and Princess of Wales

William, Kate and their three children attended the annual Together At Christmas service at Westminster Abbey last December. Kate dedicated the occasion to those who support and uplift children. She said, 'Christmas is a time when we come together and celebrate the birth of a newborn baby. The arrival of every baby is a precious and momentous time, it brings us together to reflect on new beginnings and brings hope for the future.'

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Kate Middleton and Prince William

After a tough few months for the Price and Princess of Wales, they announced in September 2024 that Kate had finished her chemotherapy and was now cancer-free. The heir's wife had abdominal surgery in January, with post-operative tests discovering that she had cancer. This photo shows them spending time with one another in Norfolk, taken from a candid video whereby Kate reflected on the profound impact her cancer journey has had. 'This time has above all reminded William and me to reflect and be grateful for the simple yet important things in life, which so many of us often take for granted. Of simply loving and being loved,' she wrote.

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