These Are The Best Lovehoney Sex Toys To Amp Up Your Pleasure

If spending more time with ourselves during the last couple of years has taught us anything, it's that masturbation really does wondrous things for our mental health and wellbeing. And to reach even more euphoric heights, sex toys have most definitely played a part in solo fun.

But sex toys don't have to be relegated to our bedside drawers when we fancy some alone time, there are amazing sex toys for couples that can be whipped out to elevate sexual experiences with our partners.

We understand a certain level of confidence is needed and a lot of communication between you and your sexual partner to make sure everyone is comfortable when introducing vibrators, bullets, suction toys and even kegel balls. As Annabelle Knight, Lovehoney's sex and relationship expert sexual explains, sex toys can be intimidating, particularly when involving heterosexual partnerships.

'Most women don't orgasm through intercourse and only around 30% can do it. Like many other sex experts, I have been making this point for years. The result is men have at least three times as many orgasms with a partner than women do.'

To make things easy for those of you looking to introduce new sex toys into a relationship (to try and close that orgasm gap) or you're looking to improve solo play, Knight has put together a selection of the best Lovehoney sex toys to get you started.

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How to introduce sex toys in a relationship

Annabelle Knight, sex and relationship expert with sexual wellness brand Lovehoney, explains that the idea all women can orgasm through intercourse is the 'biggest and most damaging myth about sex'.

'Most women don't orgasm through intercourse and only around 30% can do it. Like many other sex experts, I have been making this point for years. The result is men have at least three times as many orgasms with a partner than women do.'

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To help some of us along Knight recommends adding sex toys to your repertoire, 'They are a great way to stimulate the clitoris and improve women's chances of orgasming, which is why they are a fun way to improve sexual happiness and close that orgasm gap.'

Buying sex toys does not have to be expensive, Knight advises starting with something simple with a clitoral vibrator like Lovehoney Tease Finger Vibrator, or a bullet like the Mantric Rechargeable Bullet Vibrator. 'Both are great fun to use on your own – or even more fun if your partner takes the lead'.

'But if you've never used sex toys before, the prospect can be intimidating, to say the least,' Knight adds. 'Maybe you're worried about offending your partner or that they won't be into it, or you think the toy you want to try feels taboo. Often, the main concern is that the sex toy could replace the partner, or could be 'better' than your partner. But that fear is unfounded. There is no replacement for live, human contact.'

Knight explains that the purpose of sex toys in any type of relationship is 'To increase connection and pleasure, as well as add to the sexual experience within a couple, not detract from it. Toys are sexual enhancements, like ketchup on a hot dog.'

'The key point to stress when you raise the subject is that the sex toys are not just for you but both of you. This is all about your mutual pleasure. Go slow - start with a simple bullet and maybe use it to enhance foreplay. If that works, start shopping together. The most popular couple’s toys are love rings - worn together during intercourse, enhancing the experience for both of you.'

Expert advice: How to get over masturbation shame

'Overwhelming feelings of shame or guilt are sadly not uncommon for women when masturbating. But there are lots of ways you can overcome them,' Knight explains, 'The most important first step is to love your body. If you are not sure where to begin, kick off by making a list of five-ten things that you love about your body. These can be traits that make you feel empowered or show your strength. The key is choosing things that make you feel more confident.'

An act of self-care

'Start thinking of masturbation not as a cause of shame but as an act of self-care and self-love. Seek out daily pleasures and build self-care into your daily regime. See how it improves your mood and overall happiness. Extend this self-love beyond masturbation – go for a massage or maybe treat yourself to a day at a spa.'

Explore your body

'Remember that your pleasure and sexuality extend far beyond your vulva. One fun trick is to explore every erogenous zone in your body except your vulva. There are more than 20 – from your ear lobes to that sweet spot at the top of your thighs.'

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Pick up a mirror

'Don't be afraid to connect with your vulva like you never have before. Try exploring the region visually by looking in a mirror and drawing your labia.'

Explore different sex toys

'Get to know your preferences. None of us masturbates in the same way – that is why there are so many different types of sex toys. A powerful toy such as a Doxy works for some while others prefer the fluttering delights of the new wave of suction toys such as the Pro40.'

Solo date

'Finally, don't forget to romance yourself. Just because you are going solo doesn't mean that you cannot enhance the mood with candles and aromatic scents.'

Knight says, 'In short, masturbation is something to be celebrated, not to feel ashamed about. Celebrate it as part of your self-care regime and it will enhance the quality of the whole experience.'