There comes a time when your tired old bra just won't take it anymore. This time, for me, came two days ago, leaving me in the unenviable position of suddenly needing new bras. Plural. Not only did I realise that I hadn't embarked on such a shopping trip for years, which possibly makes me a terrible example of an adult woman, it also dawned on me that I don't even know what size I need. With so many new lingerie brands on the market, where to even begin?
Underwear is, of course, a boring thing to have to buy. It absolutely has to be comfortable – you're wearing it every day and close to your skin, after all – and you want something that isn't hideous but also isn't made with the sexual fantasy of a 15-year old boy in mind. Until recently, that was surprisingly hard to find. The lingerie market has been dominated by sexualised advertising campaigns and product that is clearly designed more with the voyeur in mind than the wearer. Lingerie brands like Victoria's Secret built their entire business on the male gaze, and we were all expected to enjoy that. In the last few years, however, multiple brands have emerged that are actually catering to women and their needs. Imagine!
In May of 2018, Rihanna made her next step on the path to world domination by launching Savage x Fenty, a lingerie brand created 'for the female gaze, not the male gaze.' Like the beauty brand that came before it, Savage x Fenty set out to promote Rihanna's message of inclusivity, using images of women of different shapes, sizes and ethnicities. Bras are available in sizes 32A to 44DD, while knickers are made in sizes XS to 3ZL. 'Women should be wearing lingerie for their damn selves,' Rihanna said at the time of launch. Since then, she has shown at New York Fashion Week, making headlines for the diversity of her model line-up. For her show in 2022, she rounded up Lizzo, Paris Hilton and Indya Moore for a music video/catwalk show/immersive viewing experience that was streamed on Amazon Prime. She has, in many ways, taken underwear to new heights.
Another brand promoting such a message, along with the idea of sexuality on a woman's terms, is Playful Promises. Regularly collaborating with a series of models and personalities that represent a body type other than very slim and white, the brand offers a huge variety of different styles, with bras available up to H cups and briefs up to a size 24. Similarly, British brand Bluebella offers a redefined idea of sensuality, giving the power back to women. Campaign stars have included the likes of Munroe Bergdorf, herself an outspoken, powerful woman and, unsurprisingly, the company was founded by – yes, you've guessed it – a woman.
There are, in fact, so many options now that even Victoria's Secret has 'rebranded' in order to try and keep up. Luxury lingerie brands like Mimi Holliday combine delicate and beautiful designs with comfort and functionality, all the way to up to double G cup. On the high street, brands such as M&S and H&M have started to use a wider variety of models to ensure that more than one body type is being represented. Given M&S' overwhelming influence in the lingerie market – it sells two pairs of knickers every single second– we can only hope that this will be the norm soon.
Another name to know is Beija London, founded by sisters in 2016 in order to make lingerie and swimwear 'you want to wear.' The brand has made it easier than ever to shop for lingerie, designing three styles of bra – the X, Y and Z – all available in cups AA-H. The idea is that once you've found the style you love, you can simply keep reordering in whichever colour or print you fancy. Dora Larsen is another favourite for its joyful colour combinations of jewel-brights, and impressive range of both soft and underwired bras.
Don't think of underwear shopping as a chore, use it as some time to dedicate to yourself. After all, it's the foundation of every outfit.
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theunderdays.com
Ex-Farfetch employees Amelie Salas and Oria Mackenzie founded Underdays 'with the ambition of creating a progressive underwear brand that speaks to the values of a new generation of women.' They've certainly achieved that.
coucouintimates.com
Sometimes less is more! Inspired by Italian summers at the Amalfi Coat, this is balconette bra is just the right amount of flirty. It comes in black and white, and now there is a stunning red colour that has dropped just in time for Valentines day.
www.selfridges.com
Isn't this the prettiest bra you've seen? The silhouettes of Charli Howard's 'Athena' collection are inspired by Greek Mythology, named after the goddess of wisdom craft and warfare.
www.pourmoi.co.uk
Pour Moi started out as a small independent brand born out of Macclesfield, and has grown so successful it now sells a bra every 30 seconds. It must be doing something right...
laperla.com
One of the most iconic lingerie brands, La Perla has been around since 1954 and has truly stood the test of time as one of the best.
awaveawake.com
AWAVEAWAKE might be better known for its ethereal dresses as seen on the likes of Solange Knowles but trust me when I say that you'll want to introduce its underwear to your own collection. The brand was founded by Jaclyn Hodes in 2012 as one of the first entirely plant-dyed luxury labels. And these knickers are dyed using entirely plant-based sources native to Bali, which are said to have healing properties. Whether that's true or not, the fact of the matter is few pieces of lingerie will feel this comfortable and luxurious at the same time.
lounge.com
Comfort made sexy is Lounge's motto. What started in 2015, is going from strength to strength with daring yet romantic styles that blend dreamy confidence with thoughtful detailing, giving each piece a unique and feminine feel.
chloepearl.com
I think is this definitely one of the cutest pieces of lingerie, I've ever seen. It so gracefully drapes and the frills sit perfectly on the hips.
Clue's in the name - Playful Promises makes lingerie that is comfortable, sexy and oh-so playful. From latex and mesh choices to frilly florals, there's something for everyone.
fruitybooty.co.uk
Fun, playful and designed to make you feel fantastic, Fruity Booty only uses repurposed fabrics and sustainably-sourced materials, meaning all of its products are limited edition. This particular set is recycled polyester and elastane.
www.bluebella.com
Founded in 2005 by Emily Bendell, the story and vision for Bluebella was simple. Fashion-led luxurious lingerie and nightwear collections designed for spirited and style conscious women - and I tell you what, it feels great to wear.
www.savagex.co.uk
It was love at first sight when we found this ruffled embroidered demi bra. It has matching knickers, stockings and a suspender skirt.
doralarsen.com
Delicate lace but with the support, we especially love the colours too. Dora Larsen is manufactured using sustainable materials and it is well enough to wear every day.