The Prince And The Peacemaker: Inside Harry And Kate’s Friendship

They may be in-laws, but Harry and Kate are close friends too.

Harry, Kate and William

by Guy Pewsey |
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When it comes to family, it is a sad fact that tragedy often has the power to heal rifts. This certainly seems to be the case with the royal family. After the death of Prince Philip, disputes between Prince Harry and his older brother Prince William may be set to be resolved. A royal source said has stated that 'William and Harry have managed to speak on the phone' in recent days, and 'they very much agree that this week is absolutely about supporting the Queen, the rest of the family and commemorating the life and legacy of their grandfather.' But it seems that it is Kate, Duchess of Cambridge and Harry's sister-in-law, who will be the peacemaker in the situation, with The Telegraph stating that she is 'hopeful of a resolution.' This is not hugely surprising: Kate and Harry have long been close.

In a 2017 profile in Newsweek__, we were given major insights into Harry and Kate's close relationship. They have, after all, known each other for almost two decades: Harry has known Kate since she first started dating William back in 2003.

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'There was no one filling the hole left by Diana’s death, and Harry seemed to be growing up without someone emotionally available he could lean on,' the piece reads. 'Kate has helped fill some of that gap. When she and William got engaged, Harry called her the big sister he never had. He often pops into their apartment at Kensington Palace, where she cooks him a meal – roast chicken is reportedly a particular favourite.' That tidbit seems to have been confirmed since then: Harry and Meghan were roasting a chicken when they decided to get married.

Harry and Kate reportedly share a love of Game of Thrones boxsets, with the Daily Mail previously describing the Duchess as Harry's 'lynchpin,' helping him out with everything from 'cookery lessons' to 'sensible romantic advice': indeed, Kate was one of the first family members to be introduced to Harry's girlfriend, Meghan Markle.

An insider told the Daily Mail that the Duchess is a big fan of Harry's laidback attitude and sense of humour. 'Kate has quite a different relationship with Harry than she has with William. Harry appeals to her sillier side because he is carefree, footloose and loves banter,' they said. 'He finds things funny about people and says so.' This humour was best displayed one Christmas when Kate is reported to have given Harry a 'Grow Your Own Girlfriend' kit. Naturally, this was before Meghan was on the scene.

There's also the fact that Harry is clearly a doting uncle to Prince George, Princess Charlotte and Prince Louis. Remember when George couldn't work out why Harry was on his best behaviour in front of Barack and Michelle Obama (because he's used to his uncle being much more mischievous)? Too sweet.

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Harry, Kate and Will chat at a reception at Windsor Castle in May 2012.

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Our money's on Harry.

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Harry has Kate laughing about something as they arrive to a rehearsal dinner the night before Prince William and Kate's wedding.

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The three celebrate the Queen's 90th birthday in June 2016 in London.

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Prince Harry has the whole balcony laughing during a visit to Mons, Belgium.

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Harry and Kate arrived to Derby Day in Epsom in June 2011.

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Prince William, Kate and Prince Harry glam up to attend 'A Night of Heros', the annual Sun Military Awards, to honour members of the British armed forces in London in 2011.

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Kate and Harry watch the show jumping event during Day 4 of the 2012 London Olympic Games.

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It's a bird! It's a plane! It's something very interesting, obviously!

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So cute. Harry, Kate and William visit the Harry Potter set at the Warner Bros Studios in April 2013.

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Harry leans over Kate's shoulder as they leave a Service Of Thanksgiving at St Paul's Cathedral in June 2012.

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Kate and Harry share a laugh while watching the London Olympic Torch Relay.

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The two share a moment during the Commonwealth Games in 2014.

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The three royals cheer on England at the RBS Six Nations match against Italy in 2007.

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Back in 2008, Harry and Kate were spotted laughing as they watched the Order of the Garter procession at Windsor Castle, which doesn't seem particularly funny to us, but, hey.

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Kate and Harry arrive together at the Anzac Day service in Westminster Abbey in 2019.

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