Inside Tom Hiddleston And Fiancée Zawe Ashton’s Relationship

And we'd totally forgotten they were together.

Tom Hiddleston and Zawe Ashton at the Critics Choice Awards 2024

by Bonnie McLaren |
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We were recently reminded of the acting power couple Zawe Ashton and Tom Hiddleston (after very much forgetting they were together) when they cut an impressive figure on the Emmys red carpet. And then we were also swiftly reminded of why they make such a great couple.

Los Angeles, CA - January 15: Zawe Ashton and Tom Hiddleston arriving at the 75th Primetime Emmy Awards at the Peacock Theater in Los Angeles, CA, Monday, Jan. 15, 2024. (Jay L. Clendenin / Los Angeles Times via Getty Images)

The lowkey couple also welcomed a child together without any fanfare in 2022, which is no mean feat in their industry. While they have chosen to keep the gender and any further details private, the happy secret was outed when Zawe debuted her bump at the premiere of her film Mr Malcom’s List, in New York City back in June 2022. One of the many reasons why they're our favourite (secret) Hollywood power couple.

NEW YORK, NEW YORK - JUNE 29: Zawe Ashton attends "Mr. Malcolm's List" New York Premiere at DGA Theater on June 29, 2022 in New York City. (Photo by Michael Loccisano/Getty Images)

How long have Tom Hiddleston And Zawe Ashton been together?

So, how long have these two actually been together? For those who need a reminder, the pair were actually romantically linked way back in 2019, but you could be forgiven for not knowing that, as they've been pretty private since.

How did Tom Hiddleston and Zawe Ashton meet?

Well, the stars met at work - as they both starred in the West End production of Betrayal, which naturally sent the romance rumours into overdrive. The pair costarred in the revival of Harold Pinter's play where they played married couple Robert and Emma, which is supposedly where their own love story began.

A month later, Tom was spotted looking 'in good spirits' at the launch of Zawe's book, Character Breakdown, which is a memoir/ fiction hybrid based on her life in performance. Then in August, after its success in London, Betrayal was taken to Broadway which meant the pair were acting alongside each other once more. How convenient!

Since 2019, they've been spotted at various showbiz events together, including the US Open and Wimbledon (of course), as well as on holiday in Ibiza, and by September 2021 they were ready to make their red carpet debut as a couple at the Tony Awards.

LONDON, ENGLAND - JULY 16: Zawe Ashton and Tom Hiddleston watch Carlos Alcaraz vs Novak Djokovic in the Wimbledon 2023 men's final on Centre Court during day fourteen of the Wimbledon Tennis Championships at the All England Lawn Tennis and Croquet Club on July 16, 2023 in London, England. (Photo by Karwai Tang/WireImage)

Their relationship wasn't picked up by the showbiz world for a while – with a source even telling The Sunthat Tom has been more private about his love life since his famous relationship with Taylor Swift.

In September 2019, an insider told the paper: 'Tom really has fallen for Zawe in a big way. They’ve actually been together for more than six months. But he is so paranoid about his private life since his relationship with Taylor that he has gone to great lengths to keep this under wraps.' They even added that Tom thinks Zawe could be the 'love of his life' - cute.

Are Tom Hiddleston and Zawe Ashton married?

As far as we know, Tom and Zawe have been engaged since March 2022, but are not yet married. Zawe was first spotted wearing a (very impressive) ring at the BAFTAs in March 2022, with Tom later confirming that they got engaged earlier that month.

In an interview in the LA Times in June 2022, he said, 'I'm very happy,' and revealed that he had proposed to his partner a few months earlier. But knowing how private the couple are, it's possible they've managed to pull off a lowkey wedding without the media noticing. If our suspicions ever get confirmed, we'll be sure to let you know.

LONDON, ENGLAND - NOVEMBER 19: Tom Hiddleston and Zawe Ashton attend The 67th Evening Standard Theatre Awards at Claridge's Hotel on November 19, 2023 in London, England. (Photo by Dave Benett/Getty Images)

Do Tom Hiddleston and Zawe Ashton have kids?

Yes, the happy couple welcomed their first baby together in June 2022. At the time, a source told Us Weekly, 'Tom and Zawe are loving being new parents and are filled with joy. They have been having the struggles of new parents and aren't sleeping much but are thrilled.'

Are Tom Hiddleston and Zawe Ashton often spotted together in public?

Since the couple went public and made their first red carpet appearance at the Tony Awards, they tend to only get spotted on awards show red carpets or in the audience at major tennis tournaments. As you do! Most recently, they attended the Emmys and the Critics Choice Awards together looking as loved up as ever, as Tom was nominated for best actor in a drama series for his role in Loki.

SANTA MONICA, CALIFORNIA - JANUARY 14: Tom Hiddleston (L) and Zawe Ashton attend the 29th Annual Critics Choice Awards at Barker Hangar on January 14, 2024 in Santa Monica, California. (Photo by Monica Schipper/GA/The Hollywood Reporter via Getty Images)

However, they do occasionally treat fans to a bit of insight into their relationship. For example, while on the Jimmy Fallon Show promoting the second season of Loki last November, Tom couldn't resit promoting his fiancée's film too.

Speaking about his connections to the Marvel universe, he said, 'I mean, there are connections. Some secret, some not-so-secret. I don’t know what the fans think the secret connection is.' He then admitted, 'My other half is in The Marvels and I’m very proud of her. So there you go. That’s out this weekend.'

We love a lowkey, supportive celebrity pairing. Whatever they're doing, it seems to be working!

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