Lily Allen and David Harbour’s Complete Relationship Timeline

The Stranger Things actor has made some truly moving comments on how becoming a stepfather has changed his life.

Lily Allen David Harbour Relationship Timeline

by Shana Lynch and Guy Pewsey |
Updated on

Last year, singer Lily Allen and her Stranger Things boyfriend officially tied the knot. After obtaining a marriage license in Las Vegas earlier that week, the couple wed in a ceremony on a Monday night, followed by a hamburger reception. The marriage made David an official member of the Allen family and gave him stepfather status to Lily's two children, Ethel and Marnie.

'They're British and I'm this cheese-fed American man and they really do like the fact they have an extra jungle gym,' he told Ellen DeGeneres.

'They crawl all over me, they make it their job to try to hurt me as much as they can. My lower back is destroyed. Of course I love it. I have never experienced this kind of - I was always a single guy, who has been a bachelor for a long time, I've been an artist, I wanted to travel the world and do my work.

'And I never really wanted to have kids. And I get it now, why everybody has kids. Because it's kind of like the meaning of life, you pass the torch to these other individuals. You love them more than you could ever love yourself, and I never thought that was possible with anyone, I love myself a lot. But it's such a beautiful thing. My heart is just broken wide open and I have a new love I never had.'

The couple, who have been together for just over two year, just returned from a holiday in Croatia where they soaked up the sun alongside Lily's two daughters. First linked romantically in the summer of 2019, it led to a whirlwind of red carpet pictures and rumoured engagements ever since.

Now that they're officially married, let's take a look back at where things began for them.

Gallery

Lily Allen and David Harbour's Relationship Timeline - Grazia

Lily Allen and David Harbour's Relationship Timeline1 of 17
CREDIT: Getty

January 2019

While speaking on the _How To Fail With Elizabeth Day, Lily says, 'I'm single for the first time since I was about 15,' confirming that her three-year-long relationship with MC Meridian Dan has come to an end.

Lily Allen and David Harbour's Relationship Timeline2 of 17
CREDIT: Getty

July 2019

David Harbour and Alison Sudol, who were rumoured to have been dating for over a year, split, as reported by_.

Lily Allen and David Harbour's Relationship Timeline3 of 17
CREDIT: Getty

August 2019

In August 2019, the couple are seen dining together and attending the Lehman Trilogy at the Piccadilly Theatre, according to _E! in London.

Lily Allen and David Harbour's Relationship Timeline4 of 17
CREDIT: Getty

October 2019

October 2019 is big month for the couple! Firstly, as reported by_, David brought Lily as his guest to an after-party after hosting Saturday Night Live. During his SNL performance, Lily posted a close-up of the actor's bicep to her Instagram story, stating, 'Mine.'Then, a few days later, the couple is seen walking around NYC and their PDA, including hand-holding and kissing, is caught by the paparazzi.

Lily Allen and David Harbour's Relationship Timeline5 of 17
CREDIT: Getty

17 October 2019

After being spotted kissing all over the streets of NYC, the two are pictured together on the red carpet for the first time at the Skin Cancer Foundation's Champions for Change Gala.

Lily Allen and David Harbour's Relationship Timeline6 of 17
CREDIT: Getty

18 October 2019

Also in October 2019, the couple attended a New York Knicks game and are featured on the Kiss Cam. Aww.

Lily Allen and David Harbour's Relationship Timeline7 of 17
CREDIT: Getty

3 December 2019

The couple is pictured on FROW at the Dior Men runway show in Miami.

Lily Allen and David Harbour's Relationship Timeline8 of 17
CREDIT: Getty

19 January 2020

It's red carpet official! Lily and David make their red carpet debut as a couple at the 26th annual Screen Actors Guild Awards.

Lily Allen and David Harbour's Relationship Timeline9 of 17
CREDIT: Getty

1 February 2020

On this side of the Atlantic, Lily and David are pictured arriving at the Charles Finch & Chanel Pre-BAFTA Party.

Lily Allen and David Harbour's Relationship Timeline10 of 17
CREDIT: Instagram

11 April 2020

The couple are spending lockdown together in London where they celebrate his birthday alongside her two daughters with a cake baked by Lily herself.

Lily Allen and David Harbour's Relationship Timeline11 of 17
CREDIT: Instagram

27 April 2020

After sparking engagement rumours at the end of 2019{ =nofollow}, Lily adds fuel to the fire by posting a very scandalous Instagram featuring a diamond ring on that finger.

Lily Allen and David Harbour's Relationship Timeline12 of 17
CREDIT: Instagram

27 July 2020

Lily goes on a solo-trip to Italy...and there's that pesky diamond ring again.

Lily Allen and David Harbour's Relationship Timeline13 of 17
CREDIT: Instagram

20 August 2020

While on a family holiday to Croatia, Lily posts an Instagram of David wearing 'eBay bootlegged march.' If that doesn't say 'true love,' we don't know what does.

Lily Allen and David Harbour's Relationship Timeline14 of 17
CREDIT: Instagram

29 August 2020

Lily marks the end of their Croatian holiday with an adorable family selfie of David, Lily and her daughters.

Lily Allen and David Harbour's Relationship Timeline15 of 17
CREDIT: Instagram

9 September 2020

They're married! The couple tie the knot in a sweet ceremony in Las Vegas, complete with Elvis impersonators and all.

Lily Allen and David Harbour's Relationship Timeline16 of 17
CREDIT: Getty

October 6 2020

Asked if Lily would consider having a child with David, she said: 'I think so. Especially now Marnie's getting so big. It's like, "no, my babies!"... I miss little terrors running around the house.'

Lily Allen and David Harbour's Relationship Timeline17 of 17
CREDIT: Getty

June 3rd 2021

David explained that marrying Lily stemmed from her children's confusion concerning his status, with the eldest saying 'He's not our dad, he's not our dad'. 'The younger one was like, "Well what is he, he's kind of her dad?, he's kind of our step dad?" and the older one said, "He's just some guy in our lives,"'' David said. 'I was like, "I need to marry this woman because the emotional fallout..."'

READ MORE: A Definitive Timeline Of Kate And William's Royal Romance

READ MORE: Blake Lively And Ryan Reynolds' Relationship Timeline

READ MORE: A Complete Timeline of Gigi Hadid and Zayn Malik's Relationship

Just so you know, whilst we may receive a commission or other compensation from the links on this website, we never allow this to influence product selections - read why you should trust us