The Debrief Meets Fred Sirieix From First Dates

We got the connoisseur of first dates to teach us a thing or two about romance

Fred First Dates Interview

by Jazmin Kopotsha |
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I used to think that I really knew about romance. I had that shit down and I was unbearably into it. And no, I don't mean that tired, low-level, peck on the cheek type of 'love'. I'm talking about that over the top, unrealistically magical, painfully awe-inspiring, Disney princess' happily ever after, one fantastically suffocating kiss to rule them all, kind of stuff.

I think I was the reason they started to put the word 'hopeless' in front of 'romantic'.

Then things changed a tad. Break ups happened, dating apps terrified me and I lost my way a little bit. At least, that was until I watched Channel 4's First Dates for the first time and realised that what I dreamt of didn't even come close to the heart-wrenching real-world L. O. V. E. that we get to watch in action at the show's restaurant and hotels.

Right at the centre of it all, is Fred Siriex. You know, Fred? The handsome French Maitre d' who greets the blind daters as they arrive and offers tweetable snippets of advice about love and life and stuff. That dream machine.

Well, obviously I decided that if I want to learn about IRL romance and how to re-find it for myself, Fred was the guy to talk to.

Fred First Dates Interview

So that's precisely what I did. The lovely people of Channel 4 set me and Fred up on a date (yes, I'm going to call it a date) at the beautiful Galvin at Windows restaurant (where Fred works IRL outside of the show) and he taught me where I'm going wrong with dates (not going on them), how to get out of a bad one (be nice about it) and where romance stands in the modern, Tinder-focussed world. Watch the video below and feel free to take notes. I did...

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