Kittenfishing: The Online Dating Trend You Are Probably Guilty Of

Let us introduce you to Kittenfishing: AKA, Catfishing Lite

Kittenfishing: The Online Dating Trend You Are Guilty Of

by Georgina Roberts |
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In the highly competitive online dating world, a new phenomenon is sweeping the scene. It’s called 'Kittenfishing”, and it’s safe to say we are all probably guilty of it (eek). Think of it as a less severe/disturbing version of 'Catfishing.' For the uninitiated, a catfish pretend to be a completely different person, often even gender, online, in their bid to find love.

Dating app Hinge have defined 'Kittenfishing,' as ‘Catfishing lite’. It can range from choosing a photo for your Tinder profile which is 4 years old from your skinny phase, adding a couple of inches to your listed height, shaving a few years off your age, editing the university on your profile from a Russell group to Oxbridge…Sound familiar? It’s not full-blown lying, rather presenting a deceptively positive version of yourself in order to win a few more matches or dates. Hopefully, they won’t notice when you turn up at the bar 1 stone heavier and 2 years older than advertised.

Since dating apps like Tinder only require your first name, it’s hard for your matches to check if your details are fully accurate, and so bending the truth seems a temptingly easy option. Before you jump to condone lying to your potential future husband, stop to consider that we are all culprits of 'Kittenfishing' on a daily basis. Our online personas – on Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, are the highly edited, idealised version of our lives. When you put a flattering filter on your Instagram or Facetune your profile picture, you are technically bending the truth. So, are we a generation of liars? Social media offers us the opportunity to constantly ‘edit’ ourselves, to hide some aspects of our life and emphasise others. In this online environment, lying is becoming more acceptable and normalised than it was for past generations.

Since 38% of men and 24% of women admitted to having been victims of'kittenfishing,'it is clearly becoming a widespread issue. Despite these figures, only 2% of men and 1% of women actually confessed to having been a'kittenfish.' This would imply that editing yourself online has become so normalised that we do not even notice we are doing it. Perhaps the 'kittenfishing' phenomenon has taken such a hold as the online dating scene becomes more and more overcrowded. In order to fight off the hordes of beautiful competition to find a special someone, we have to bend the truth slightly. Depressing, right?

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This article originally appeared on The Debrief.

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