‘People can cry much easier than they can change’ are words by James Baldwin that I think about often. I have considered these words even more during the resurgence of the Black Lives Matter Movement and the reaction of organisations and non-Black people, to the realities of police brutality in relation to Black people around the world.
Yesterday on social media, I watched countless numbers of people share the harrowing video of Jacob Blake, a 29 year old Black man, being shot eight times in the back by police in Kenosha, Wisconsin. This atrocity took place in front of three of his children.
I wish I could fathom an incredibly eloquent way to convey the pain that surged through my entire body having to catch continuous glimpses of the state-sanctioned violence meted out by the police onto yet another Black person. I am deliberate in not including the word ‘innocent’ as an adjective in that sentence, because even this is a violence. Black people should not have to jump through hoops of morality in order to be afforded empathy.
It seems Jacob Blake was breaking up a fight between two women and ended up being paralysed from the waist down and have most of his colon and small intestines removed as a result of this shooting. This sort of brutality by the police continues to happen because the police force in America especially, has been cultivated on the false basis of the inherent criminality of Blackness.
My reason for writing this piece is not to give a bite size lecture on the origins of the police force as it relates to its highest demographic of victims (Black people). I write this piece to impress upon those who claim that they want to be anti-racist - that sharing videos of Black people being mutilated is not activism.
‘But I am trying to raise awareness!’ they profess.
There comes a point where we have to be honest with ourselves as individuals and as a society, and become accountable to the ways that our intentions cause more harm than good.
If you wanted to ‘raise awareness’ about the injustice faced by a white person, would you show the violence in action? It is highly unlikely, because the way race has been constructed means that humanity is something closely positioned with whiteness and non-white bodies have historically been sites of colonisation and objectification.
Sharing videos of Black people being harmed by police has become a sport to perform disgust while doing little else.
The brutal reality is that sharing and watching videos of Black people being harmed or killed by police has become a sport for some to perform their ‘disgust’ while doing little else to address the system that continues to allow for this to happen.
Early this morning, I watched the press conference held by Jacob Blake’s family and I resonated deeply with a statement made by one of his sisters, Letetra Widman; 'I’m not sad. I’m not sorry. I’m angry and I’m tired. I have not cried one time. I stopped crying years ago…I have been watching the police murder people who look like me for years…I don’t want your pity, I want change.'
Black people deserve the change that century after century; they have fought, marched, sat down, sat in, written and sang for.
Videos like the one of Jacob Blake being shot by police, are even shared on television news channels. LBC radio station encouraged listeners to look up the video online and then call in to share their views on it as well as the Black Lives Matter movement. Sharing these traumatising videos doesn’t raise the awareness of people who are desensitised to Black pain.
Instead what I see taking place too often, is people commenting on what the victim should and should not have done to avoid being shot, strangled, or kneeled on by the police. I wonder if these trauma porn commentators are aware that there is usually a case where the victim has done exactly as they have suggested and still being killed or hurt anyway. The issue with the police and Black people is not whether the Black person is doing as they’re told or not, it is the Blackness of the victim that is criminal above all.
More than that, the ability to callously admonish a victim of police brutality with how they could’ve avoided the situation, is racism at play. It is an attempt to shift the blame from those in the position of power to the victim, thus making more robust the power of the oppressive authority figure.
I hate to break it to some of you but your black squares cannot be the beginning and end of your activism. Your 'disbelief that this is happening in 2020' (whatever that means) cannot be the finish line of your anti-racism aspirations. 'It is overwhelming to process the deeply entrenched racism in our society', you say? Now imagine being overwhelmed by a trauma that you still have to navigate daily and still radically make space for joy and love.
How can anything be done when laws are formed based on the vilification of Blackness?
The last legal public lynching in America was in 1936, but since then we have seen more executions of Black people at the hands of law enforcement and nothing has been done to dismantle the system that allows for this violence to continue. How can anything be done when the western world has formed a lot of their laws on the othering and vilification of Blackness?
History shows that the police force as we know it in America originated from slave patrols. This is important to note because it means that, fundamentally, at its core the police will always be an oppressive force where Blackness is concerned.
Let this piece serve as a call to action for us all. We can’t 'love and light' or 'thoughts and prayers' our way out of systemic and institutional racism. Stop sharing videos recklessly and do some real work. Less crying, more change.
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Click through for anti-racism charities in the UK and US including Jacob Blake's GoFundMe for medical bills...
Charities To Support - Grazia
Stephen Lawrence Charitable Trust
Stephen Lawrence Charitable Trust works with young people from disadvantaged backgrounds aged 13 to 30 to inspire and enable them to succeed in the career of their choice
Peace and Healing for Darnella Fund
Darnella Frazier, the brave young woman who filmed the murder of George Floyd, deserves peace and healing. In addition to the trauma of watching a black man be murdered by police, she has had to deal with trolls, bullies and ignorant people harassing her online. This fund is to support the healing and the restoration of hope for Darnella Frazier —whatever that means to her.
Justice for Jacob Blake Fund
Set up by Blake's mother, this fund will cover his medical expenses, mental and grief counseling for his family and to assist them in the days to come, as they continue to seek justice for Jacob. A portion of these proceeds will also be used to benefit his six children.
Milwaukee Freedom Fund
MFF was started by Black and Brown Milwaukee organizers to support residents' right to protest for justice. Donations help support their work helping protesters and community mutual aid and start a locally controlled and operated Milwaukee Bail Out Fund that is part of the National Bail Out Network. Through this work they will build on ongoing bail abolition efforts, support immigration efforts, work towards Black and Brown Liberation and support Black and Brown young people as they build a new world.
George Floyd Memorial Fund
This fund covers his funeral and burial expenses, mental and grief counseling for the family, lodging and travel for all court proceedings and to assist the family in the days to come as they continue to seek justice for George. A portion of these funds will also go to the Estate of George Floyd for the benefit and care of his children and their educational fund.
Minnesota Freedom Fund
The MFF is working with the US National Lawyers Guild and Legal Rights Center to help bails that are set for protestors.
Prison Reform Trust
Prison Reform Trust works to make the prison system in the UK just, humane and effective.
Joint Council For The Welfare Of Immigrants
The JCWI aims to create a world in which immigration law and policy are based on sound evidence, promote the rule of law and are underpinned by respect for human rights and human dignity
Access UK
Helps reduce BME youth unemployment, provide employment and training solutions for youth offenders and implement anti-gang initiatives in the community.
Charity So White
Tackles institutional racism in the charity sector.
Black Thrive
Black Thrive works to reduce the inequality and injustices experienced by Black people in mental health services.
The Ubele Initiative
Supports the African diaspora community.
Women In Prison
Supports women affected by the criminal justice system and campaigns to end the harm of prison to women, their families and our communities.
Race On The Agenda (ROTA)
Race On The Agenda (ROTA) is a social policy research organisation focusing on issues that impact BAME communities.
Show Racism The Red Card
Provides educational workshops, training sessions, multimedia packages, and a whole host of other resources, all with the purpose of tackling racism in society.
The Equality Trust
Works to improve the quality of life in the UK by reducing economic and social inequality.
Stop Hate UK
A service for victims of racial harassment aiming to end hate crimes in the UK.
Runnymede
Generates intelligence to challenge race inequality in Britain through research, network building, leading debate, and policy engagement.
National Bail Out
This US charity is a Black-led and Black-centered collective of abolitionist organizers, lawyers and activists building a community-based movement to support our folks and end systems of pretrial detention and ultimately mass incarceration.
Black Lives Matter
This US organisation (for which there is a UK movement here) fights to end state-sanctioned violence, liberate Black people, and end white supremacy forever.
BEAM
BEAM is a US training, movement building and grant making organization dedicated to the healing, wellness and liberation of Black and marginalized communities.
Ahmaud Arbery Memorial Fund
Ahmaud Arbery was chased and gunned down by Travis McMichael, son of retired Brunswick investigator Greg McMichael, under the father's and son's pretenses of witnessing a burglary in Satilla Shores of Glynn County. There is no evidence of the alleged burglary.
Belly Mujinga Memorial Fund
For the memorial of Belly Mujinga, the railway worker who was spat at before she died of Covid-19.