Valentine's Day is fast approaching. Get ready for public displays of affection, heaps of heart-shaped everythings, bouquets of flowers and boxes of chocolates. Though you may not be overjoyed by the impending love-filled occasion, you don't have to quash the festivities altogether... We're talking a well-deserved spot of self-love in the form of shopping - for ourselves. Because why not? We've put together a wishlist of things we actually want this Valentine's Day (flowers and chocolates aside). From us to us.
Christian Louboutin Lip Colour in Velvet Matte
It's no secret that when you're feeling a little deflated, a beauty purchase can perk you up. Treating yourself to makeup is therapeutic, especially when it's as luxurious as this Rouge Louboutin lipstick. The Velvet Matte shade is romantic and the regal casing is heavenly - it would look great on your lips and in your makeup bag.
Coach Envelope Card Case
We love everything from Coach, and this pink coin purse is next on our wishlist. It's the perfect size to hold all the cards you need, as well as some change for coffee, and still fit in your clutch or cross-body bag. For those city-goers who are looking to revamp their accessory collection, this is where to begin.
Olivia von Halle Daria Topaz Silk Shirt and Wide Leg Trouser Set
There is little more satisfying than climbing into a freshly-made bed dressed in luxury silk pyjamas, and this Olivia von Halle set completes that fantasy. These pyjamas are so nice, in fact, that they can hardly be counted as loungewear. Our love for pyjama dressing in the daytime is long-lived, and these wide leg silk trousers demand that they be worn as evening-wear too - with heeled boots or mules and a long coat. So really it's a 2-in-1 purchase (as if we need justification to buy it).
Liz Earle Botanical Fragrance No.20 Eau de Parfum
Calling spring in early, award-winning beauty favourite Liz Earle has encapsulated the romantic essence of the Damask rose in full bloom for their latest fragrance. To celebrate the brand's 20th anniversary it has collaborated with Grasse-based perfumer Domitille Bertier to create the Botanical Essence No.20 Eau de Parfum. If you're coveting a fresh and feminine scent (and, like us, you're done with winter) then you'll love this.
Anthropologie Homewear
Your environment can greatly affect your mood and happiness, so don't neglect to decorate your home. Take interior inspiration from Anthropologie - their homewear collection can bring the dullest of spaces to life. Eclectic pieces with clashing prints and bold colours will inject some joy into your surroundings, and the best thing about homewear is that it can last forever, so you won't be ridden with guilt if you ivest.
Vase, £38-£68 / Doormat, £88 from Anthropologie.
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Valentine's Day Gift Guide For Her/Us - Grazia
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Burberry First Love palette, £45 from Burberry
For that just-fallen-in-love flushed-cheek glow, the Burberry First Love palette is a beauty must-have. The palette is a blush and highlighter combination, but don't wait to purchase as it's limited edition.
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Coconut Milk EOS Lip Balm, £6.50 from ASOS
Keep your lips super soft and smooth with the new EOS Soft Lip collection. They contain nourishing ingredients as well as Vitamin C to encourage collagen production for a radiant pout. They are also 95 percent natural so you can't go wrong when it comes to lip care.
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Love Soak Gift Set, £32 from Clean Beauty Co.
Who doesn't love a pamper session? This Love Soak Set is the perfect gift to yourself if you love to bathe. It contains Well-Earned Soak (filled with lavender essence) and Coconut Dreaming, which is pina colada scented. Ultimate relaxation can be reached.
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Therapy Mini Fiona Frame Handbag in navy, £29 from House of Fraser
Chanel Jackie O with House of Frasers' collection of mini handbags with cross-body chains. They will add glamour to any outfit and are perfect for a date night.
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Bath and Body collection from L’Artisan Parfumeur
Luxury perfumery brand L'Artisan is launching a bath and body range, featuring their best selling fragrances in lotion form. La Chasse Aux Papillon is the most romantic scent in the collection - it smells like white flowers on a sunny summer's day.
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Matte For You Brush, £12.95 from KIKO Milano
KIKO Milano's Matte For You limited-edition collection is Valentine's themed. The Matte For You face brush has soft heart-shaped bristles which allow you to collect just the right amount of product for an even, smooth look.
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Heart Tag, £20 from Pop & Suki
Just in time for Valentine's Day, Pop & Suki have launched heart-tags to put on your keys. They come in black and pink, and for £32 you can get them customised.
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Rose De Mai Massage Candle, £36 from OSKIA
For candle obsessives (hello), this candle by OSKIA is heaven. The two-in-one soybean and coconut oil candle melts down into a body oil which you can then use to massage into the skin to nourish it.
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Button-Back Bell-Sleeve Top, £65 from J.Crew
This pink bell-sleeve top from J.Crew is oh-so cute. Dress it up for the office by tucking it into a skirt, or dress it down with jeans. It also comes in a muted pale blue version.
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Lips in Saint, £8 from Topshop
Add a slick of pink for your pout with Lips in Saint. Topshop's collection of lipsticks are both gorgeous and affordable, so go on, treat yourself.
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Patrick Mavros Zozo Ruby Heart Gold Pendant, £3,300 from patrickmavros.com
Patrick Mavros is an African luxury jewellery brand inspired by the beauty of the African landscape. The Zozo Ruby Heart collection has exquisite pieces adorned with red rubies, and they come in different sizes.
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2017 A5 Weekly Diary Bonded Leather: Copper, £24 from kikki.K
It's not too late in the year to get a planner if you haven't already, and kikki.K is the place to go. The Swedish brand prides itself on the functionality of its designs, and its minimal aesthetic is right up our street.
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Wire House Magazine Rack, £32 from Oliver Bonas
If your house is full of magazines (like ours are), this stylish copper magazine rack will not only keep them neat and organised but will look great in your home.
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Belted Flare Trousers, £69 from & Other Stories
We're loving these beige trousers from & Other Stories. The dramatic flares with a clinched-in waist makes for a sophisticated, urban outfit - the ultimate city look this season. Perfect with a tight jersey top and statement boot heels.
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Tiffany Soleste earrings, £11,200 from Tiffany & Co.
For something more lavish (ok, much more lavish) these Tiffany earrings in platinum with pear-shaped tanzanites and round diamonds are divine.
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Metallic Rose Gold Leather Stellar 34 , £110 and Nude Pink Suede Kensington 34 , £90 from Abbott Lyon
If you're looking for a new watch, look no further than Abbott Lyon. Their luxury watches are beautiful, affordable, and their rose gold metallic range is apt for Valentine's Day (or should we say, Treat Yourself Day).
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The Naked Marshmallow Toasting Kit, £15
The Naked Marshmallow Toasting Kit is the perfect gadget for those with a sweet tooth, and is a great addition to any cosy night in. Flavours include Vanilla Bean, Candy Floss, Strawberry Cream, Choc Orange and Salted Caramel.
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