From Taylor Lautner To Travis Kelce, All Taylor Swift’s Relationship Age Gaps Explained

The singer and the NFL star are set to marry and fans cannot contain their excitement

Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce

by Nikki Peach |
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Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce have announced that they are engaged after two years of dating – news an army of Swifties has been waiting to hear since the singer broke onto the scene in 2006. It's a love story for the ages (or at least the internet).

Sharing a series of Millennial-coded pictures of them staring into each other's eyes in a stylised flower garden, wearing a striped dress and a navy polo shirt, Taylor captioned the post: 'Your English teacher and your gym teacher are getting married.' With more than 27 million likes in less than 24 hours, the news duly broke the internet.

But now fans are wondering: What is Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce's age gap? And how does it differ to her past relationships? We've done the research so you don't have to.

All Taylor Swift's relationship age gaps

Brandon Borello - High school

Brandon Borello's exact age is not known, but given that they dated in high school it's likely that they were in the same school year, meaning he is also 35.

Drew Hardwick - High school

The same goes for Taylor's second high school sweetheart, Drew Hardwick. It is assumed that he is also 35 years old.

Taylor Swift and Joe Jonas at the 2008 MTV Video Music Awards. (Kravitz/FilmMagic)

Joe Jonas - July to Oct 2008

Taylor's first relationship in the public eye was with Jonas Brothers singer Joe Jonas, who is 36 years old. They had a one year age gap.

Lucas Till – March to April 2009

Taylor's next relationship was with actor Lucas Till, who is 35, meaning they had no age gap.

Taylor Swift and Taylor Lautner at the Alice+Olivia Boutique on Robertson Blvd in 2009. (Photo by Jean Baptiste Lacroix/WireImage)

Taylor Lautner - 2009

As the former country singer started to break into the mainstream, she was dating Twilight star Taylor Lautner. He is 33 and is two years Taylor's junior.

John Mayer – Dec 2009 to Feb 2010

One of Taylor's older romances was with musician John Mayer who is 47 years old. They had a 12-year age gap.

Jake Gyllenhaal – Oct 2010 to Jan 2011

After dating John, Taylor began seeing actor Jake Gyllenhaal, who is 44 and therefore nine years older.

Conor Kennedy - July to Oct 2012

Tired of older men, Taylor was next in a relationship with Conor Kennedy, a member of the infamous political dynasty. He is 31 years old and therefore four years younger that the singer.

Taylor Swift and Harry Styles in Central Park in 2012. (Photo by David Krieger/Bauer-Griffin/GC Images)

Harry Styles – Nov 2012 to Jan 2013

Harry Styles, who Taylor famously dated in the early 2010s, is also 31 years old and therefore four years her junior.

Calvin Harris - Feb 2015 to May 2016

After dating two younger men, Taylor went for someone slightly older again in the form of Calvin Harris. The producer is 41 years old and he and Taylor had a six-year age gap.

Tom Hiddleston - May to Sept 2016

Following this relationship, she briefly dated actor Tom Hiddleston who is 44. They had a nine-year age gap.

Joe Alwyn - May 2017 to April 2023

Taylor's longest relationship to date was with English actor Joe Alwyn, who is one year younger than the singer.

Matty Healy - May to June 2023

One of her most contentious relationships (at least from his side) was with Matty Healy of The 1975 fame. He is 36 and therefore one year older than Taylor.

Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce
Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce ©Gotham/GC Images

Travis Kelce - July 2023 to present

And finally, her fiancé and the relationship Taylor is cashing in on, Travis Kelce is also 35 years old. His birthday is on 5 October 1989 and hers is on 13 December so they have an age gap of two months and are both soon to turn 36.

Nikki Peach is a writer at Grazia UK, working across entertainment, TV and news. She has also written for the i, i-D and the New Statesman Media Group and covers all things pop culture for Grazia (treating high and lowbrow with equal respect).

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