Selena Gomez has been opening up about exactly what she doesn’t want in her next relationship, after releasing two break-up songs about Justin Bieber.
In a very honest interview on The Zach Sang Show, Gomez said she’s looking towards the future, and would do things very differently in her next relationship; ‘I would be very transparent. I don’t have room to buffer things that I need or that I want. I think girls can sometimes be scared of that because we’re viewed as crazy or needy or overthinking things or dramatic.’
‘I want to know what love will look like next for me. I want it to be real and I don’t want it to be co-dependent or messy or lack of communication…. When you get older, you find people who are actually right for you, that are actually on the same wavelength as you.’
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And if you were worried about her post Bieber break-up don’t be. ‘I’ve been having way too much fun being on my own,’ she said. ‘It sucked for the first year, I was like, "I just want to cuddle. I just want to watch something and be adored." But now it feels good, it feels awesome.’
Gomez also said she’s in no rush to find someone new, adding; 'I never want to lose the sense of love that I imagine it to be. I don’t want to be jaded or bitter from anything. I believe that it exists. I’m happy waiting for that for however long it takes because we’re going to be doing this forever.'
Selena and Justin broke up in March 2018 after years of on-again-off-again dating. Justin then started dating Hailey Baldwin, who he married in September 2018. They had another ceremony with friends and family in October 2019.
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Selena Gomez In Lovers + Friends – The Alliance For Children's Rights' 21st Annual Dinner - March 2013
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Selena Gomez at the 2011 American Music Awards
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Selena Gomez at the Alison Brod Showroom in 2008
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Selena Gomez at the American Ballet Theatre 2014 Opening Night Spring Gala - May 12, 2014
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Selena Gomez at the 1st Annual Unite4
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Selena Gomez at the 2011 Billboard Music Awards
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Selena Gomez at the 2009 Creative Arts Emmy Awards
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Selena Gomez visits SiriusXM Radio in 2011
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Selena Gomez in Dolce & Gabbana at Spring Breakers film premiere, Madrid
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Selena Gomez in Dolce & Gabbana at Spring Breakers 2013 SXSW Festival - March 2013
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Selena Gomez at the 2012 MuchMusic Video Awards
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Selena Gomez at the 2011 Teen Choice Awards
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Selena Gomez in Gucci at 'Spring Breakers' film premiere, Paris
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Selena Gomez at the 'Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix' premiere in 2007
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Selena Gomez at the 'High School Musical 3' LA premiere in 2008
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Selena Gomez in Julien Macdonald at the 2013 MTV Movie Awards
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Selena Gomez at the 'Kit Kittredge' LA Premiere in 2008
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Selena Gomez at the 2011 MTV European Music Awards
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Selena Gomez at the 2012 Nickelodeon Kids' Choice Awards
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Selena Gomez in Oscar de la Renta at 2013 Nickelodeon Kids' Choice Awards - March 2013
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Selena Gomez at the 2012 Teen Choice Awards
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Selena Gomez at the 2011 Vanity Fair Oscar Party
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Selena Gomez on 'The View' 2009
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Selena Gomez at the 2014 Vanity Fair Oscar Party - March 3, 2014
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Selena Gomez at Hollywood Stands Up To Cancer Event - Tuesday, January 28, 2014