‘If Married At First Sight Was Scripted, I’d Have Asked For A Better Part!’

Melissa Lucarelli opens up about the realities of being on the show, including the fact her husband spent their honeymoon writing a book.

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by Bonnie McLaren |
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After forty - yes, forty - episodes, Married At First Sight Australia has finally come to a close in the UK. Audiences here were absolutely hooked to the drama-packed series, so much so that E4 will now be making the UK version more like the Aus version - even enlisting the help of one of the Australian experts Mel Schilling.

But, despite the theatrics, for those who do genuinely want to find love, the show poses a unique experiment which can end wonderfully for well-matched couples (in the case of Jules and Cam{ =nofollow}, for example). But TV producers know hours of happy couples would never make good TV. So then there were the pairs who weren't matched so well - enter Melissa Lucarelli and Dino Hara.

It was obvious from the start that energetic and fun-loving Melissa was deliberately matched with her complete opposite, the calm and spiritual Dino, for ratings. Mel, who had been single for years, says she applied for the show as previous seasons in Australia weren't as dramatic and she thought she had a genuine chance to find love.

But it became evidently clear that wasn't going to be the case as she says producers ignored what she said she wanted in a partner. 'Literally, everything from looks, personality, values - nothing aligned,' Melissa tells Grazia over Zoom from Australia.

Their differences even became a bit of a joke between the couple. 'After the first dinner party, we met all the other couples. And I could see that the other matches were really good. And we were both like afterwards, "We're the joke couple"',' she adds. 'It was really hard because we couldn't ever find common ground. To not even find common ground, in that experiment, it's so hard. And the worst thing was, which people don't get, it is so draining - you're filmed from 10 to 16 hours and you have to have constant banter with your partner.'

'I just think I was just so upset because they say 10,000 people apply,' she adds. 'And what you're telling me is that there is nobody [I could be matched with]? It's kind of depressing, this is kind of telling me that I'm definitely not going to be seeing a penis.'

What didn't make it to the show is that Melissa says Dino was engaged six months prior to the experiment and, unbelievably, spent their honeymoon writing a self-help book. (What?!) 'He was actually only there because he wanted to promote his book, which he wrote on the honeymoon.' She also drops another bombshell, saying that producers did not meet him before the wedding either.

Melissa and Dino eventually broke up after it came out that Dino had been recording Melissa's conversations, but she says this only materialised because she caught him doing it a second time. (That it happened twice was not shown, which makes Mel's reaction more understandable.) 'They leave out huge chunks of things that happen and it's massive, important stuff to the actual story,' she says. 'So it changes the whole thing of it. And so it makes us look like we're insane. Like even with Dino recording, he never came and told me he had recorded me, it's because I caught him recording me again, three days later.'

As for whether the show is scripted, to Melissa's knowledge, it isn't, and, if it was, 'I would have asked for a fucking better part' she jokes.

So, would Mel advise for any UK singles to take part in our new version? Despite her experience on the series: absolutely. (She is an optimist, after all.) 'Here's the thing, it can be amazing [if you are matched well] -if you are the unlucky one of all the seasons that gets a match like me, then no - but for anyone else like it can be a life changer and it's such an amazing thing to do.'

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What Happened To The Couples From Married At First Sight Australia Season Six?

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Sam Ball and Elizabeth Sobinoff

Sam and Elizabeth might not have lasted, as Sam seemed far more interested in Ines. But Lizzie was the true winner - she was so popular with viewers she appeared on the next series of the show, finding love with Seb Guilhaus. But, sadly, they split earlier this month after a year together.

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Cyrell Jimenez and Nic Jovanovic

'Cyclone Cyrell' and Nic's tumultuous relationship was, sadly, not to last. But prepare for another reality TV crossover, as Cyrell now has a baby with Love Island runner-up Eden Dally, and Nic has just been praised for posting a sweet tribute to his ex.

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Lauren Huntriss and Matthew Bennett

One of the biggest storylines this season was about Matthew and his virginity, as he was repeatedly labelled as 'virgin'/'ex-virgin' Matt by the narrator. Anyway, Matthew was matched with Lauren - who, yes, he lost his virginity to - but it all went horribly wrong when Lauren heard Matthew telling the other guys at dinner that he wasn't sexually attracted to Lauren. AWKWARD. Lauren is still a make-up artist, we don't know if she's dating anyone. But on the other hand, self-confessed fitness enthusiast Matthew is loved up with a new girlfriend - who he met at a wrestling tryout.

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Mike Gunner and Heidi Latcham

Mike and Heidi's relationship was one which could have gone either way, but after the show, the pair split - announcing the sad news at the post-finale reunion special. 'Right after the final vows, Heidi and I went back to the Gold Coast together but it didn't take long and the wheels started coming off,' Mike explained. Heidi has said she hasn't spoken to her former husband since. From the looks of their Instagram pages, they still look single.

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Cam Merchant and Jules Robinson

Oh, Cameron and Jules. From the minute Jules and Cam had their first wedding dance without any music, we had an inkling they were in it for the long haul. And we were right! The pair now have a baby together, who was born in October last year, and tied the knot properly after the show. So, yes - sometimes this wild experiment does work.

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Melissa Lucarelli and Dino Hira

Probably the worst matched couple on the series, it isn't shock the pair called it quits on the show after Dino allegedly recorded a conversation Melissa was having with her sister about the wedding day. It appears both are still single.

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Martha Kalifatidis and Michael Brunelli

Martha and Michael were an extremely drama free pair (in comparison to everyone else) so it's no shock that they have actually managed to stay together. Yay!

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Ning Surasiang and Mark Scrivens

Eek. Another very up and down pair, Ning and Mark's relationship dissolved during the final commitment ceremony - with Mark dumping Ning, much to her shock. Following the show, Mark moved on with another former reality star, Bianca Chatfield – who appeared on home renovation show The Block. Ning also has a new partner, and has become a grandmother aged 35: her daughter has just given birth!

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Susie Bradley and Billy Vincent

Susie and Billy were one of the couples who married later in the experiment. From the get go, Susie kept on calling Billy awkward - even calling him a deeb at one point on their honeymoon. They split before the final commitment ceremony. Susie is now dating former rugby pro Todd Carney and they have a baby on the way. However, Billy appears to be single.

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Ines Basic and Bronson Norrish

We knew this relationship wasn't going to last from the moment Ines asked Bronson to take out his eyebrow ring. Ines went on to have an affair with Sam, which Sam has since claimed was faked by producers, and it all came out during an explosive commitment ceremony. Bronson is now a lot happier with girlfriend Hayley Wallis. And from her Instagram, Ines looks to be single at the moment.

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Jessika Power and Mick Gould

Major cracks started to show in Mick and Jessika's relationship, then Jessika went after one of the newly weds, Dan. Not a shock that Jessica and Mick didn't survive then…(Neither did her affair with Dan, btw.)

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Dan Webb and Tamara Joy

After these two fell apart thanks to Jessika and Dan's affair, Tamara was linked to Jessika's ex, Mick. The drama never stops.

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