Domestic abuse is not always treated realistically in television and film. Blame our insatiable need for a happy ending. Many narratives – like Jennifer Lopez’s 2002 film Enough – follow victims as they seek unrealistic and illegal eye-for-eye justice against their abusers. Villains who raise their fists against their partners in soap operas historically get their comeuppance, leaving their victim to heal, move on and find peace and happiness with someone new. But this year has seen a change in the tide, as writers acknowledge the true trauma and often tragic repercussions facing millions of women and men across the world.
Take The Invisible Man, this year’s supernatural thriller starring Elisabeth Moss. On the surface it appeared to be a classic horror. But it also highlighted the horrific impact abuse can have, and explored the psychological impact of not being believed by others. Consider the evolution of EastEnders, which last week broadcast the murder of a character at the hands of her bullying husband. It is the first death by domestic abuse in the soap’s history. Next month sees the release of Herself, a moving and unflinching depiction of a young mother battling to raise her two children after fleeing her violent husband.
Watch the official UK and Ireland trailer here:
Clare Dunne – who co-wrote the film with Malcolm Campbell – stars as Sandra, living in a hotel in Ireland with her two daughters. Provided by the council, she dreams of stability and safety, but is haunted by the continuing presence of her ex, who she must face every week in line with her custody arrangements. But when she comes across a video online with instructions on how to build a house from scratch, she jumps into action.
Directed by Mamma Mia’s Phyllida Lloyd and co-starring Killing Eve actress Harriet Walter, keep an eye out for screenings near you: it is a moving, daring and uplifting film. And don’t be surprised if it populates a few shortlists come award season: Variety called it the standout of the 2020 Sundance Film Festival.
Herself is in cinemas Friday October 16th