Are you doing Sober October this year? There are lots of reasons to do so: a clearer head, better sleep, glowier skin and the chance to raise much-needed funds for Macmillan Cancer Support. But we are living in extremely fraught times, with parts of the country in lockdown already, and the rest of us not knowing if and when the rules around working, socialising and childcare are going to change (or, indeed, what the rules actually are).
The good news is Macmillan have responded to our extraordinary circumstances by rebranding this year's initiative as Sober(ish) October, acknowledging that attempting a month of sobriety right now, on top of everything else, might be too much for some people.
Of course, if quitting alcohol completely is doable for you, then great, go for it. But I wrote Mindful Drinking: How Cutting Down Can Change Your Life because I didn't want to give up alcohol completely: I just wanted to cut out the drinks that I knocked back without really thinking about it, the ones that I wasn't even enjoying, the fourth glass that I didn't need and would mean the difference between a mild hangover and a pounding, paranoid day of misery.
Because, let's face it, a lockdown hangover is the worst of hangovers - and recent research has shown that many more of us are waking up with one. According to the report from the Global Drug Survey, more than half of British drinkers admitted to an increase in the number of drinking days in a week during lockdown, and a third reported an increase in binge drinking. Not only that, but half of us have been cracking open our first drink earlier in the day than usual.
I get it. For those of us lucky enough to have jobs that we can do from home, a drink might have become a demarcation of the end of the working day. For those that have been furloughed or lost their job during this crisis, I can see the appeal of a drink in the afternoon because, why not?
'Attempting a month of sobriety right now, on top of everything else, might be too much for some people.'
But the GDS report went on to say that poorer physical health was mentioned by more than 40% as a result of increased drinking, with a negative impact on mental health and a decreased pleasure from drinking also reported. Hear that? Decreased pleasure from drinking. Honestly, what is the point of drinking if you don’t get pleasure from it?
So, if you want to try Sober(ish) October, these tips might help you make lockdown hangovers a thing of the past...
One. Picture your future self: the bright-eyed version of you who is capable of leaping out of bed feeling fresh and well-rested. Does she want you to have another drink? No.
Two. Try and limit your drinking days in a week. I find having alcohol-free days considerably easier than stopping after one drink.
Three. Stock up on alcohol-free drinks. It sounds crazy, but sometimes that ‘fizzzzz clink’ of opening a bottle of something cold is enough to satisfy that urge to drink. I love Kombucha and Seedlip.
Four. Think about how you feel before you drink: a joyful, celebratory glass of fizz with much-missed friends? Go for it! A large white wine to numb feelings of boredom or loneliness? Call a friend instead.
Five. Find a friend (or, even better, a WhatsApp group of several people) who wants to try cutting back too. Then, when you have the urge to open a bottle of wine in the evening, you have support and encouragement at your fingertips, to help you surf the urge.
Most importantly: be kind to yourself. We are living through extraordinary times so focus on what makes you happy and, if total sobriety feels unachievable right now, join me in doing Sober(ish) October. You never know, it might just change your life.
Rosamund Dean is the author of Mindful Drinking: How Cutting Down Can Change Your Life
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Why are we obsessed with happiness? And what are the powers of a melancholic outlook? Bittersweet claims it's only when we embrace our darker emotions that we can discover our deepest meaning and connection: love and joy. Time to get angsty.

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Bestselling psychotherapist Julia Samuel dives into eight family case studies and analyses a range of common issues including separation, step-relationships, leaving home, trauma and loss, to reveal how deeply we are influenced by our relatives and how we can face challenges together.

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Rebuild your self-esteem in 2022, with this simple, practical guide to beating anxiety and being brave, from the host of The Calmer You Podcast.

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The former Love Island Star and A&E doctor reflects on his experiences - from working on the wards during the pandemic to living in the spotlight to inform readers on mental health. This self help book empowers readers though advice on how people can power though tough moments and remain mentally strong.

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How To Declutter Your Mind teaches readers specific mindfulness techniques and habits, to create more "space" in your mind to enjoy peace and happiness. You will take away excercises that will have an immediate and lasting effect on your mental health and mindset.

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In a fast moving world, The Things You Can Only See When You Slow Down provides a relief. In this timely guide to mindfulness, Haemin Sunim, a Buddhist monk dives into dealing with rest and relations and handling setbacks. A mixture of his teachings and calming illustrations remind us of the strength that comes from slowing down.

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A guide to help readers build new habits that improve their lives for the better and allow them to thrive. Time to Thrive suggests exercises based on Microsteps - tiny, science-backed changes. By making them too-small-to fail, we can incorporate them into our daily lives right away, and begin building healthier ways of living and working.

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A popular concept in Japan, nagomi exemplifies a state of being where good and bad things live in balance with each other. Neuroscientist and bestselling writer Ken Mogi examines the philosophy of nagomi and how seeking to balance both happiness and sadness – instead of simply seeking the former – will help us achieve a sense of harmony, productivity and satisfaction in our lives both in the short and long-term.
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