5 Tips To Manifest Your Best Life

Self development coach⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣ and manifesting expert⁣⁣ Roxie Nafousi shares her top tips on turning your dreams into reality.

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by Roxie Nafousi |
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You may sometimes feel like you miss out on the things that you want, or that you are unable to truly reach your goals and fulfil your ambitions. These feelings can surface at any time and for any number of reasons.

Knowing what it is that you genuinely want for yourself can often be tricky. This is sometimes because our serious ambitions become confused with elaborate dreams that we know aren’t actually realistic goals. Although the latter are fun thoughts to have, it is important that you are able to differentiate them from the dreams that you actually want to manifest.

With each passing year the things that you want to achieve, and the things that you consider to be most important to you, are likely to change or evolve. As this happens, it is natural that you will seek different ways to set these new goals in motion. The following points will help you to do so, so that you can get what you want and manifest your dreams...

Be specific

Be specific as you can when designing your dreams and put it all down on a vision board, or do a deep visualisation meditation.

Cultivate Self Love

We don't manifest from our conscious thoughts but from sub-conscious believes about what we deserve and from our self worth. That's why self-love is the driving force behind manifesting.

Embrace gratitude

Gratitude is high vibe, and we attract the vibe we put out. So when you focus on all the good in your film the more good you'll attract back to you.

Align your behaviour

manifesting is not a passive process, you can't just visualise what you want and then wait for it to appear. You have to take action, step outside your comfort zone and embody the person you want to become.

Trust in the universe

Trust is that knowing feeling that you don't know how but you just know that it is all going to work out the way that it's supposed to.

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Best Self-Help Books For 2022

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Bittersweet - How Sorrow And Longing Make Us Whole

Why are we obsessed with happiness? And what are the powers of a melancholic outlook? Bittersweet claims it's only when we embrace our darker emotions that we can discover our deepest meaning and connection: love and joy. Time to get angsty.

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(Dis)connected - How To Stay Human In An Online World

In (Dis)connected, Emma Gannon argues that after years of lockdowns and Zoom meetings our focus on community and connection has been thrown off-kilter as she offers tangible tips and advice for those of us feeling a bit lost.

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Every Family Has A Story - How We Inherit Love And Loss

Bestselling psychotherapist Julia Samuel dives into eight family case studies and analyses a range of common issues including separation, step-relationships, leaving home, trauma and loss, to reveal how deeply we are influenced by our relatives and how we can face challenges together.

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Feel Great Lose Weight: Long term, simple habits for lasting and sustainable weight loss, by Dr Rangan Chatterjee

The host of the brilliant Feel Better Live More podcast brings his warm, sensible attitude and quietly revelatory advice to the thorny area of weight loss.

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The Confidence Solution: Seven Steps to Confidence, by Chloe Brotheridge

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Shy: How Being Quiet Can Lead To Success, by Annie Ridout

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Power Hour: How to Focus on Your Goals and Create a Life You Love, by Adrienne Herbert

The inspirational powerhouse that is Adrienne Herbert shows you how to change your life, in just one hour a day.

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No Such Thing as Normal: What my mental illness has taught me about mental wellness, by Bryony Gordon

Journalist, author and founder of Mental Health Mates, Bryony Gordon brings her familiar voice to this practical book, featuring all the tools she has learned to use along her mental health journey.

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Speak Your Truth: Connecting with your inner truth and learning to find your voice, by Fearne Cotton

This bravely personal book may tell Fearne's own story of finding her voice, but it will be relatable to anyone who has ever kept quiet in order to please others – and will encourage you to speak out in your own unique, authentic way.

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No One Can Change Your Life Except For You, by Laura Whitmore

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Fears to Fierce: A Woman’s Guide to Owning Her Power, by Brita Fernandez Schmidt

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Mindful Drinking: How Cutting Down Can Change Your Life, by Rosamund Dean

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Revolution from Within: A Book of Self-Esteem, by Gloria Steinem

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Super Attractor: Methods for Manifesting a Life beyond Your Wildest Dreams, by Gabrielle Bernstein

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If In Doubt, Wash Your Hair: A Manual for Life by Anya Hindmarch

Anya is a mother of five, stepmother and successful businesswoman. Through her words she shares everything she has learnt in her colourful life. From practical tips and quick fixes, to profound observations about confidence and creativity. This handbook will show you how to live a little better - and yes sometimes simply washing your hair is the answer.

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Live Well Every Day: Your Plan For A Happy Body and Mind by Dr Alex George

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No Worries by Bella Mente Press

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Declutter Your Mind: How to Stop Worrying,Relieve Anxiety and Eliminate Negative Thinking by S.J.Scott and Barrie Davenport

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How To Do The Work by Dr Nicole LePera

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The Comfort Book by Matt Haig

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How To Heal A Broken Heart by Rosie Green

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Yoke: My Yoga of Self-Acceptance by Jessamyn Stanley

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Your Time to Thrive by Marina Khidekel

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The Fear-Fighter Manual: Professional Troublemaker by Luvvie Ajayi Jones

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Set Boundaries, Find Peace : A Guide To Reclaiming Yourself by Nedra Glover Tawwab

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Working Hard, Hardly Working by Grace Beverley

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The Anatomy Of Anxiety: Understanding And Overcoming The Body's Fear Response

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The Way Of Nagomi: The Japanese Secret To A Harmonious Life

A popular concept in Japan, nagomi exemplifies a state of being where good and bad things live in balance with each other. Neuroscientist and bestselling writer Ken Mogi examines the philosophy of nagomi and how seeking to balance both happiness and sadness – instead of simply seeking the former – will help us achieve a sense of harmony, productivity and satisfaction in our lives both in the short and long-term.

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